\u201cB\u0130Z\u0130M T\u00dcM TESP\u0130TLER\u0130M\u0130Z, kendi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce tarz\u0131m\u0131zla,\u00a0 insanlarla ili\u015fkilerimizde s\u0131k\u0131\u015f\u0131p kald\u0131k. D\u00fcnyay\u0131 bizim g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz gibi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye geldi\u011fimiz \u015fekilde g\u00f6rmeye al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k. \u201d\u201c Merak, korkuyu cesaretten \u00e7ok daha fazla fethedecek; Ger\u00e7ekten de, bir\u00e7ok insan sadece fiziksel cesaretin yol a\u00e7aca\u011f\u0131 tehlikelere s\u00fcr\u00fcklendi, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc a\u00e7l\u0131k, sevgi ve merak ya\u015fam\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck itici g\u00fc\u00e7leridir. \u201d<\/p>\n
\u00dcnl\u00fc bir senaryo yazar\u0131ndan, ger\u00e7ek bir ya\u015fam \u00f6yk\u00fcs\u00fcnden uyarlanan ‘beautiful mind’ filmini muhtemelen izlemi\u015fsinizdir. Bu yazar kendisine ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n sebebini sordu ve sonucunda bir gazeteci ile i\u015f birli\u011fi yaparak bu kitab\u0131 yazd\u0131. Bu kitaptan pek \u00e7ok ders \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131labilir. i\u015fte bunlardan baz\u0131lar\u0131:<\/p>\n
\u0130\u015f hayat\u0131n\u0131n bir kural\u0131; merakl\u0131 olan kazan\u0131r. Pek \u00e7ok insan size i\u015f hayat\u0131n\u0131n zor oldu\u011fundan yak\u0131n\u0131r. Rekabet\u00e7i bir ortam vard\u0131r ve \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fczdekiyle yar\u0131\u015f halinde olursunuz. Asl\u0131nda bu yakla\u015f\u0131m sizi ba\u015far\u0131ya g\u00f6t\u00fcrmez. \u0130\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ba\u015far\u0131, merakla do\u011fru orant\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r ve bu durum i\u015f birli\u011fine dayan\u0131r. Merak sadece i\u015f birli\u011fini beslemez ayn\u0131 zaman ba\u011flant\u0131y\u0131 da besler. Emirler vermek yerine soru sormak ve sorular\u0131 yan\u0131tlamak sizi ba\u015far\u0131ya ula\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r. Ba\u015fka bir dersimiz ise; herkes soru sorulmas\u0131n\u0131 ve sorulara cevap vermeyi sever. Hayat\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7o\u011fu boyunca g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz birini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Onu ger\u00e7ekten ne kadar tan\u0131yorsunuz? Onlara sorular sordu\u011funuzda onlar\u0131n cevaplamaktan ne kadar keyifleneceklerini fark edeceksiniz. Sevdiklerini de\u011ferli hissettirmek i\u00e7in ba\u015fka yapabilece\u011finiz \u015fey ; onunla ilgili bir ger\u00e7ek durumla ilgili soru sorman\u0131z. Onlar\u0131n keyif ald\u0131klar\u0131 hikayelerini anlatmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n. Merak insan ili\u015fkilerini geli\u015ftirir ve insanlar aras\u0131 bir ba\u011f olu\u015fturur. Son dersimiz ise; Art\u0131k soru sormay\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131p icraata ge\u00e7meniz gerekti\u011finde, sorular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ask\u0131ya al\u0131n. \u0130\u015finizle ilgili gerekli t\u00fcm bilgileri ald\u0131ktan sonra soru sormamal\u0131 ve o i\u015fle ilgilenmeniz gerekir.<\/p>\n
\u201cWE ARE ALL TRAPPED in our own way of thinking, trapped in our own way of relating to people. We get so used to seeing the world the way that we come to think that the world is the way we see it.\u201d \u201cCuriosity will conquer fear even more than bravery will; indeed, it has led many people into dangers which mere physical courage would shudder away from, for hunger and love and curiosity are the great impelling forces of life.\u201d<\/p>\n
You have probably watched the movie ‘beautiful mind’ adapted from a real-life story from a famous screenwriter. This author asked him for the reason for his success, and in conclusion, he collaborated with a journalist and wrote this book. Many lessons can be drawn from this book. here are some of them:<\/p>\n
A rule of business is that whoever’s the most curious, wins. Many people complain to you that your business life is difficult. There is a competitive environment and you are competing with the one in front of you. In fact, this approach does not lead you to success. Success in business is directly proportional to curiosity and this is based on cooperation. Curiosity not only fosters collaboration, but it also fosters connectivity. Asking and answering questions instead of placing orders will make you successful. Another lesson; everyone likes to be asked and answered questions. Imagine someone you have seen most of your life. How much do you really know him? When you ask them questions, you will realize how much they will enjoy answering. Another thing you can do to make your loved ones feel valuable; ask questions about a real situation about it. Let them tell the stories they enjoy. Curiosity improves human relations and creates a bond between people. Our last lesson; When you no longer have to stop asking questions and go into action, suspend your questions. After getting all the necessary information about your business, you should not ask questions and take care of it.<\/p>\n