Gelmi\u015f ge\u00e7mi\u015f en ilham verici kitap olarak an\u0131lan ve 20. y\u00fczy\u0131l\u0131n en etkili kitab\u0131 se\u00e7ilmi\u015f kitab\u0131n yazar\u0131 Stephen R. Covey D\u00fcnyan\u0131n en ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 25 ki\u015fisi aras\u0131nda g\u00f6sterilmi\u015ftir. Y\u00fcksek etkili insanlar\u0131n 7 al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan bahseden bu kitap 25 milyonun \u00fczerinde satm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.Yazar\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnden sonra bile kitab\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 hala devam etmekte ve \u00e7o\u011fu ele\u015ftirmen taraf\u0131ndan liderli\u011fin kutsal kitab\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcr. B\u00f6ylesine g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir kitaptan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lacak bir \u00e7ok ders vard\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte bunlardan baz\u0131lar\u0131:<\/p>\n
\u0130lk ders; Cenaze testini yap\u0131n. Covey’e g\u00f6re ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n ve etkili olman\u0131n en \u00f6nemli \u015fartlar\u0131ndan biri yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z i\u015fin sonunu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmektir. B\u00fcy\u00fck ve uzun vadeli hedeflerinizde net olursan\u0131z, her bir karar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 buna g\u00f6re hizalayabilirsiniz. Bu hedefler hakk\u0131nda a\u00e7\u0131k olman\u0131n en iyi yolu cenaze testi yapmakt\u0131r. Bu hedef i\u00e7in kendimize soraca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z sorular ise: \u0130nsanlar\u0131n cenazemde ne s\u00f6ylemesini istiyorum?, Nas\u0131l hat\u0131rlanmak istiyorum?dur. Bu sorular\u0131n cevaplar\u0131na g\u00f6re eylemlerinizi \u015fekillendirin. \u0130kinci ders: Nas\u0131l hay\u0131r denilir \u00f6\u011frenin. Bazen \u00f6d\u00fcller \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fcze dizilir ama b\u00f6yle durumlarda cenaze testini yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bir i\u015f ya kesinlikle yap\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r ya da yap\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Son ders: Aktif dinleme. Dinledi\u011finiz ki\u015fiyi anlamak i\u00e7in dinleyin. Onlar\u0131 tekrar ederek onlar\u0131n dedi\u011fini iyice anlay\u0131n. Covey’e g\u00f6re ilk \u00f6nce anlamal\u0131 sonra anla\u015f\u0131lmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n
The most influential book of the 20th century, named as the most inspiring book ever, and the author of the book, Stephen R. Covey, was listed among the 25 most successful people in the world. Speaking of 7 habits of high-impact people, this book has sold over 25 million copies. Even after the author’s death, the book’s success continues and is considered by many critics to be the holy book of leadership. There are many lessons to be drawn from such a powerful book. Here are some of them:
\nFirst lesson; Take the funeral test. According to Covey, one of the most important conditions of success and being effective is to think about the end of your work. If you are clear on your big and long-term goals, you can align each decision accordingly. The best way to be clear about these goals is to do a funeral test. The questions we will ask ourselves for this goal are: What do I want people to say at my funeral ?, How do I want to be remembered? Shape your actions according to the answers to these questions. Second lesson: Learn how to say no. Sometimes the rewards are placed in front of you, but in such cases, you should do the funeral test. A job must be done or not. Last lesson: Active listening. Listen to understand the person you are listening to. Understand them well by repeating them. According to Covey, you must first understand and then try to be understood.<\/p>\n