{"id":17096,"date":"2020-05-25T11:30:13","date_gmt":"2020-05-25T08:30:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/?p=17096"},"modified":"2020-06-01T09:47:34","modified_gmt":"2020-06-01T06:47:34","slug":"henri-j-m-nouwen-sozleri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/henri-j-m-nouwen-sozleri\/","title":{"rendered":"Henri J.M. Nouwen S\u00f6zleri"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Henri J.M. Nouwen ingilizce s\u00f6zleri aras\u0131nda en pop\u00fcler ve anlaml\u0131 olan s\u00f6zleri sizler i\u00e7in derledik ve T\u00fcrk\u00e7e\u2019ye \u00e7evirdik. Henri J.M. Nouwen s\u00f6zlerini ve T\u00fcrk\u00e7e anlamlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dan inceleyebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u201cOver the years, I have come to realize that the greatest trap in our life is not success, popularity, or power, but self-rejection. Success, popularity, and power can indeed present a great temptation, but their seductive quality often comes from the way they are part of the much larger temptation to self-rejection. When we have come to believe in the voices that call us worthless and unlovable, then success, popularity, and power are easily perceived as attractive solutions. The real trap, however, is self-rejection. As soon as someone accuses me or criticizes me, as soon as I am rejected, left alone, or abandoned, I find myself thinking, &#8220;Well, that proves once again that I am a nobody.&#8221; &#8230; [My dark side says,] I am no good&#8230; I deserve to be pushed aside, forgotten, rejected, and abandoned. Self-rejection is the greatest enemy of the spiritual life because it contradicts the sacred voice that calls us the &#8220;Beloved.&#8221; Being the Beloved constitutes the core truth of our existence.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">\u201cY\u0131llar boyunca, hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki en b\u00fcy\u00fck tuza\u011f\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131, pop\u00fclerlik veya g\u00fc\u00e7 de\u011fil, kendini reddetme oldu\u011funu fark ettim. Ba\u015far\u0131, pop\u00fclerlik ve g\u00fc\u00e7 ger\u00e7ekten b\u00fcy\u00fck bir cazip olabilir, ancak ba\u015ftan \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131c\u0131 nitelikleri genellikle kendilerini reddetme y\u00f6n\u00fcndeki \u00e7ok daha b\u00fcy\u00fck cazibenin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olmalar\u0131ndan gelir. Bize de\u011fersiz ve sevimsiz diyen seslere inanmaya ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ba\u015far\u0131, pop\u00fclerlik ve g\u00fc\u00e7 kolayca \u00e7ekici \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmler olarak alg\u0131lan\u0131r. Ancak ger\u00e7ek tuzak kendini reddetmektir. Birisi beni su\u00e7larsa ya da ele\u015ftirir etmez, reddeder, yaln\u0131z kal\u0131r ya da terk edilir edilmez, kendimi &#8220;Eh, bu bir daha hi\u00e7 kimsem olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131 kan\u0131tl\u0131yor&#8221; diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcm. &#8230; [Karanl\u0131k taraf\u0131m diyor ki]] Ben iyi de\u011filim &#8230; Bir kenara itilmeyi, unutulmay\u0131, reddedilmeyi ve terk edilmeyi hak ediyorum. Kendini reddetme, manevi ya\u015fam\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131d\u0131r \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bize &#8220;Sevgili&#8221; diyen kutsal sesle \u00e7eli\u015fir. Sevgili olmak, varl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n temel ger\u00e7e\u011fini olu\u015fturur. \u201d<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u201cAs long as we continue to live as if we are what we do, what we have, and what other people think about us, we will remain filled with judgments, opinions, evaluations, and condemnations. We will remain addicted to putting people and things in their &#8220;right&#8221; place.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">\u201cYapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fey, sahip oldu\u011fumuz ve di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n bizim hakk\u0131m\u0131zda ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi ya\u015famaya devam etti\u011fimiz s\u00fcrece, yarg\u0131lar, g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fler, de\u011ferlendirmeler ve k\u0131namalarla dolu kalaca\u011f\u0131z. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 ve \u015feyleri &#8220;do\u011fru&#8221; yerlerine koymaya ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 kalaca\u011f\u0131z. &#8220;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u201cSomewhere we know that without silence words lose their meaning, that without listening speaking no longer heals, that without distance closeness cannot cure.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">\u201cSessizlik olmadan kelimelerin anlam\u0131n\u0131 yitirdi\u011fini, konu\u015fmay\u0131 dinlemeden art\u0131k iyile\u015fmeyece\u011fini, mesafe yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olmadan iyile\u015femeyece\u011fini biliyoruz.\u201d<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u201cJoy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">\u201cSevin\u00e7 sadece bize olmaz. Sevinci se\u00e7meli ve her g\u00fcn se\u00e7meye devam etmeliyiz. \u201d<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u201cThe spiritual life does not remove us from the world but leads us deeper into it\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\"><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u201cManevi ya\u015fam bizi d\u00fcnyadan uzakla\u015ft\u0131rmaz, bizi daha derinlere g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u201cWe need to be angels for each other, to give each other strength and consolation. Because only when we fully realize that the cup of life is not only a cup of sorrow but also a cup of joy will we be able to drink it.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">\u201cBirbirimize g\u00fc\u00e7 ve teselli vermek i\u00e7in melek olmal\u0131y\u0131z. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sadece ya\u015fam fincan\u0131n\u0131n sadece bir bardak keder de\u011fil, ayn\u0131 zamanda bir fincan ne\u015fe oldu\u011funu tam olarak fark etti\u011fimizde i\u00e7ebiliriz. \u201d<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u201cDare to love and to be a real friend. The love you give and receive is a reality that will lead you closer and closer to God as well as those whom God has given you to love.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">\u201cSevmeye ve ger\u00e7ek bir arkada\u015f olmaya cesaret et. Verdi\u011finiz ve ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sevgi sizi Tanr\u0131&#8217;ya ve Tanr\u0131&#8217;n\u0131n size sevmenizi verdiklerine daha da yak\u0131nla\u015ft\u0131racak bir ger\u00e7ektir. \u201d<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u201cHospitality means primarily the creation of free space where the stranger can enter and become a friend instead of an enemy. Hospitality is not to change people, but to offer them space where change can take place. It is not to bring men and women over to our side, but to offer freedom not disturbed by dividing lines.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">\u201cMisafirperverlik \u00f6ncelikle yabanc\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman yerine arkada\u015f olabilece\u011fi ve arkada\u015f olabilece\u011fi bo\u015f alan yaratmak demektir. Misafirperverlik insanlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmek de\u011fil, onlara de\u011fi\u015fimin olabilece\u011fi yer sunmakt\u0131r. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ve erkekleri bizim taraf\u0131m\u0131za getirmek de\u011fil, \u00e7izgileri b\u00f6lmekten rahats\u0131z olmayan bir \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck sunmak. \u201d<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"color: #0000ff\">\u201cwhen the imitation of Christ does not mean to live a life like Christ, but to live your life as authentically as Christ lived his, then there are many ways and forms in which a man can be a Christian.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px\">\u201cMesih&#8217;in taklidi, Mesih gibi bir hayat ya\u015famak de\u011fil, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 Mesih&#8217;in ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi otantik bir \u015fekilde ya\u015famak anlam\u0131na geldi\u011finde, bir erke\u011fin H\u0131ristiyan olabilece\u011fi bir\u00e7ok yol ve form vard\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Henri J.M. Nouwen ingilizce s\u00f6zleri aras\u0131nda en pop\u00fcler ve anlaml\u0131 olan s\u00f6zleri sizler i\u00e7in derledik ve T\u00fcrk\u00e7e\u2019ye \u00e7evirdik. Henri J.M. Nouwen s\u00f6zlerini ve T\u00fcrk\u00e7e anlamlar\u0131n\u0131 a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dan inceleyebilirsiniz. \u201cOver the years,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":17102,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2392],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17096","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ingilizce-unlu-sozleri"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17096","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17096"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17096\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/17102"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17096"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17096"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.konusarakogren.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17096"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}